i fucking love the word pansexual i think its a lovely word and i really wanna use it to describe myself but calling myself bisexual is so important to me and when i describe myself as both i’m met with “eXCUSE ME U CANNOT” and it sucks
You totally can, though.
I identify primarly as bisexual, but also as pansexual, and everyone who feels that is a problem can fuck off. It’s your sexuality, you’re allowed to decide what words you use for describing it.
it’s very frustrating being a girl and trying to flirt with other girls like. you tell them, ur cute. ‘Aw thank you’ no. no i’m being gay with you. homo intended. damn it
it’s also super frustrating to be on the other end of that. ‘You’re cute’ yeah but am i cute or am i cute cute?? is homo intended or is no homo intended???